Is My Child Dyslexic?

Is My Child Dyslexic?

written by Dr. Liz Nissim-Matheis, posted on Psychology Today

It’s March, and you’ve noticed a few things about your child’s reading and writing skills. At your last parent-teacher conference, your child’s teacher recognizes that your child is struggling with reading and writing. What can be further confusing is that your child may have made progress but is still not reading or writing at grade level. Slowly, over the school year, you’ve noticed that your child avoids reading or huffs and puffs when it’s time to sit down and write a response, a short answer, or an essay.

So now what?

We can’t ignore the elephant in the room. The COVID-19 pandemic created a gap in instruction for 1.5 years. Our children did not receive the face-to-face instruction that they needed. Many of the academic struggles that our children were experiencing went unnoticed because how can a teacher recognize reading and writing struggles when assignments are being handed in electronically. There isn’t an observation of the entire child who may have been melting down behind the screen. A great deal of teacher observations and academic instruction were lost during that time.

As our children progressed to the next grade and then the next, parents and teachers began to notice skills that were not at grade level in reading or writing. Our children began to show more behavioral signs, and the natural explanation was that our child was “behavioral” without truly understanding or investigating the underlying roots of those behaviors.

11 Things Parents of Kids with Disabilities Need to Survive and Thrive

11 Things Parents of Kids with Disabilities Need to Survive and Thrive

written by Lisa Jo Rudy, posted on VeryWell Family

When you’re the guardian or parent of a disabled child, various aspects of parenting are magnified. Playdates can become complex projects requiring diplomacy, support, and vast quantities of time and patience. Trips to the doctor are frequent, expensive, time-consuming, and fraught with worry. Shopping excursions are likely to result in sensory and emotional overloads for both you and your children.

With so much more to think about, worry about, plan for, and manage, it is paramount that you’re taking good care of yourself.

11 Needs of Guardians of Disabled Children

Here’s a partial list that may sound familiar to parents and guardians of disabled children, especially if they have a disability themself. While these are the top 11, they’re in no particular order.

More Time

Between PTO meetings, helping out with homework, and work deadlines, it can be hard for any parent to find “me” time. Magnify that for parents of children with disabilities who might also have IEP meetings, therapy appointments, and many doctor appointments in the mix.

Add challenges such as driving 50 miles to get to the only dentist who will work with your child’s sensory needs, only to learn that you’ll need to come back next week to fill that cavity… and then driving 60 miles in the other direction because your kid wants to take ballet and the only mobility-inclusive ballet class is on the other side of the county.

And let’s not get started on how the rest of your time is spent working or nurturing relationships with your partner(s), your friends, and your extended family.

Energy Reserves

Not only is it time-consuming to be an advocate for your child on top of parenting, it’s also exhausting. It takes a lot of energy to raise a child, and then add hours a day for driving to out of town appointments, filling out paperwork, reading new studies and research articles, caring for your child during meltdowns and flareups, or cooking special foods for your child because of allergies, intolerances, or feeding challenges.

Toss in the energy required to cope with strangers’ stares, teachers’ “concerns,” and grandparents’ worries, and it all adds up to very few hours of rest.

Money for Critical Expenses

Without taking into account the effects of inflation, a low minimum wage, employment discrimination, and other systemic barriers, the typical costs of raising a child increase if the child is disabled. A multi-income household should be able to earn enough money for a family to live comfortably, but that is not always the reality, and many households are led by one parent or guardian.

Mobility aids, communication devices, medicine, specialist co-pays, and the extra gas to drive to all those specialists—it all adds up. Many parents of disabled kids also wind up cutting back their work hours to be available for their child, thus decreasing their income when they need it most.

To Test or Not to Test Privately?

To Test or Not To Test Privately?

written by Dr. Liz Matheis, published on Psychology Today

You know your child is struggling academically, whether he’s not reading at the same level as the other kids in his grade or she’s struggling to write her thoughts on paper.

You’ve spoken to your child’s teacher, who is on board with you and confirms what you see and know. With that said, what’s the next step?

The natural next step is to reach out to the child study team (CST) of your school. From my experience during the last three years, there is often redirection back to the general education arena for an intervention and referral services plan (IRSP), which includes the accommodations to be implemented for 4-6 weeks.

Teachers are asked to offer more differentiated instruction and try more strategies before the child can be referred for a child study team evaluation.

Where does this leave our struggling child? Waiting. Waiting for intervention while more time in the school year passes by. During that time, the gap widens, and remediation opportunities are lost.

I speak from both personal and professional experience. This means that both you and your child are frustrated and flailing.

What’s another option? The private psycho-educational evaluation.

The Best Way to Explain Learning Disabilities to Your Child

The Best Way to Explain Learning Disabilities to Your Child

written by Rick Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed., posted on ADDitude Magazine

A parent once called my special education school to request an admissions visit for her and her son, who was struggling mightily in school. She asked a strange question in her initial phone call: “Does the school have any signs or posters displayed that identify the program as a school for kids with learning disabilities?”

I asked her why she wished to know this. She replied, “My son doesn’t know that he has a learning disability, and we don’t want him to know.” He knows, Mom. Believe me, he knows.

I have long been puzzled by a parent’s reluctance to discuss a child’s learning disability diagnosis with him. The knowledge that he has an identifiable, common, measurable, and treatable condition often comes as great comfort to the youngster. Without this information, the child is likely to believe the taunts of his classmates and feel that he indeed is a dummy. The truth will set him free!

If a child does not have a basic understanding of the nature of his learning challenges, it is unlikely that he will be able to sustain his motivation in the classroom. Because he is puzzled about the difficulty that he is experiencing at school, he is unlikely to be able to commit to his studies.

6 Ways to Use Your Smartphone to Improve Executive Function Skills

6 Ways to Use Your Smartphone to Improve Executive Function Skills

posted on hill center

Students with learning challenges, especially those with executive function difficulties, often struggle with organization and time management. These executive functioning skills are controlled by the part of the brain known as the frontal lobe, which is not fully mature until a person reaches around 25 years of age, and even later for people with ADHD and other learning differences. For this reason, skills like focusing, getting started on assignments, and staying organized don’t always come easily, as they must be developed and refined over time.

When it comes to school, students commonly forget or misplace assignments, folders, items, or materials. But somehow, no matter what, they always know where their phone is. So why not use this device to help improve their executive functioning skills? Below, we break down six effective strategies and ideas to take full advantage of smartphone technology and support executive function abilities.

The Alarm

Students who struggle with executive function skills are often easily distracted and unorganized. Children can set an alarm with helpful reminders for various tasks and activities. For example, students may benefit from setting an alarm once a week to clean out and organize notebooks and backpacks; that way they can more easily find and use their materials when they need them.

The Speechify App

When a student has trouble with executive function skills, maintaining focus during reading and reading comprehension can be extremely challenging. The Speechify app—created by Cliff Weitzman, an American entrepreneur with dyslexia—reads any text passage or article aloud simply by taking its photo. The Speechify app also stores these audio recordings for later listening, and they can be accessed whenever it is most convenient.

The Notes App

Organization support is key for students who struggle with executive function. Built into most smartphones, notes apps offer a variety of tools and tactics to boost organizational skills. For instance, students can use this app in the table format to outline daily tasks and objectives. They can also use this app to type or voice record their homework assignments for each class. The Notes app even allows for reminders, but students may simply benefit from the simplicity of jotting down their nightly to-do lists.

The Camera

Smartphones are all equipped with sophisticated cameras that can be extremely useful and efficient information-storing tools. Students can use their smartphone camera to snap a photo of homework assignments or lecture notes from the whiteboard. By using the camera, students instantly capture exact instructions for their viewing later on. This tactic is especially helpful if handwriting is particularly challenging or time-consuming.

Voice Recording

Many students have the will and determination to listen, but lack the executive function skillsrequired to retain the information being presented. The voice recording feature, built into all major smartphones allows students to record themselves reading notes aloud. By reciting and recording lesson notes, students can then listen to their notes over and over to improve their retention, lock the information into their long-term memory, and eliminate the need for late-night cramming.

Study Playlists

For some students, having background noise is the key to focusing as they work. Students can use their preferred music streaming service, such as Spotify or Apple Music, to build 30-, 60- and 90-minute playlists of songs for studying. As an important note, these playlists should be composed of songs they know by heart to avoid potential daydreaming or distractions. Have your child estimate how long the assignment is going to take and coordinate the workload with the appropriately lengthed playlist. This tactic has the added advantage of helping students track their time, increasing awareness of how long tasks actually take.

How Hill Learning Center Can Help

We can make a difference. Hill Learning Center is dedicated to transforming students with learning differences and attention challenges into confident, independent learners. We work closely with our family of teachers, parents, and students to promote academic success throughout our community. Contact us if you are interested in taking the next step.

What Is Non-Verbal Learning Disorder?

What Is Non-Verbal Learning Disorder?

written by Caroline Miller, posted on childmind.org

When we think of learning disorders, we tend to think of kids who have a hard time learning to read. But there’s another kind of learning disorder, non-verbal learning disorder, or NLD for short. NLD affects other, “non-verbal” kinds of learning like the ability to notice patterns and learn concepts. These include visual patterns, social patterns, and concepts in language and math.

In school, kids with NLD usually have no problem memorizing facts, but they have trouble with ideas and organizing information. Kids with NLD can also be physically clumsy and awkward because they have a hard time understanding what they see and how things take up space.

Like autistic kids, kids with NLD often have trouble picking up social cues. In fact, many kids with NLD also have an autism diagnosis. Non-verbal social cues are a kind of pattern that’s hard for these kids to read.

Sometimes kids with NLD are great at the early stages of math because they’re good at memorizing. But more advanced problems get tricky because they involve noticing and applying a pattern. NLD also affects the set of skills we use to plan and organize our thinking. So kids have trouble breaking down a project into steps, knowing what skills to use for a given problem or figuring out how to organize an essay.

Lots of kids with NLD have all these issues. But some just have a few. For example, they might just struggle with planning and social cues.

Adults tend to realize something’s going on with these kids around 5thgrade. That’s when school becomes less about memorizing and more about applying concepts. For example, kids need to be able to grasp the important idea from a passage or take notes on the main ideas of what a teacher says. NLD makes those skills much harder to learn, but with the right support and strategies kids with NLD can catch up with their peers.

Preparing for Success: How Technology Can Enhance Your Test Preparation Efforts

Preparing for Success: How Technology Can Enhance Your Test Preparation Efforts

written by Jennifer Woods

Preparing for tests and exams can be a daunting task, particularly for young learners who may feel nervous about their abilities. However, with the right tools and resources at hand, it is possible to approach test prep with confidence and ease. One of the most helpful tools available today is technology, which offers a wide range of resources that can make test prep more efficient, effective, and even enjoyable.
In this article, we will explore some of the ways that technology can enhance your test preparation efforts, making studying easier and more engaging for young learners.

Interactive Practice Tests
Most people agree that practice tests are a valuable tool when preparing for exams, as they help learners become familiar with the types of questions they will encounter and the format of the test itself.
Interactive practice tests take this one step further by providing learners with immediate feedback on their answers, enabling them to identify areas where they need to improve. Platforms like Khan Academy, Quizlet, and RiSE+ offer a multitude of practice tests and questions for learners of all ages, from elementary school through high school and beyond.

Learning Apps
Another way that technology can enhance test prep is through learning apps. These apps provide learners with a fun and engaging way to practice key skills, such as maths, reading, and writing.
Many learning apps are gamified, making the process of learning feel like play. For example, apps like Duolingo offer engaging language practice in bite-sized chunks, while maths apps like Prodigy Math Game make maths practice more enjoyable than ever before.

Online Tutors

While classroom or in-person tutoring is an effective way to boost learning, online tutoring is becoming increasingly popular among learners of all ages. Young learners can benefit from working with online tutors who can provide personalized attention and targeted support. Platforms like VIPKid, Chegg, and Study.com offer access to online tutors who can help learners prepare for specific tests or provide extra support with homework and assignments.

Online Resources and Tools
The internet itself is a powerful tool for learners, providing access to a vast array of resources that can be used to support test prep efforts. From online textbooks and study guides to educational videos and interactive simulations, the internet offers a wealth of information that can help learners understand and master key concepts. Many of these resources are free and easily accessible, making it easier than ever for young learners to learn at their own pace and in their way.

Collaborative Learning Platforms
Finally, young learners can benefit from collaborative learning platforms that facilitate communication and interaction between learners. Platforms like Google Classroom, Edmodo, and Canvas provide learners with a centralised place to access and submit assignments, ask questions, and engage with other learners and teachers. Collaborative learning platforms can help young learners feel more connected and engaged in the learning process, which can ultimately lead to better performance on tests and exams.

In Summary
Preparing for tests and exams doesn’t have to be a stressful or overwhelming experience, particularly for young learners who may be new to the process. By leveraging the power of technology, learners can access a wide range of resources and tools that can make test prep more efficient, effective, and even enjoyable.
From interactive practice tests and learning apps to online tutors, online resources and tools, and collaborative learning platforms, technology offers an array of options that can support learners at every stage of the test prep process. Whether you’re preparing for your first spelling test or a high-stakes entrance exam, technology can help you achieve your goals and unlock your full potential.

Managing Learning Disabilities as a Teen and Young Adult

Managing Learning Disabilities as a Teen and Young Adult

posted on College Educated

For many students with a learning disability, this is their first time out on their own and dealing with this disability without a formal IEP or a parent or support network to help them.

Almost 20 percent of college students have some sort of disability, including learning disabilities. While there are many supports at every college for students with learning disabilities, many students don’t report they have an LD due to fear of stigma, not knowing there are services available,

Of students with learning disabilities, there are some statistics that are in support of getting help early and often.

  • Mean GPA is highest for students who disclosed their disability early.
  • Students who attend a learning support center fared better than other students who didn’t.
  • Every hour of help from a tutoring center improved students’ GPA.

This is all important stuff – because many students with learning disabilities don’t graduate from college – and the reasons above are part of why. Now, take a look at our resources and save them. Hopefully you can use them to be a part of the percentage that does graduate.

Our resource gives you tools for your specific LD, how to advocate for yourself, how to ask for accommodations, help understanding your learning disability, and how to manage your LD in school, at work, and with a co-occurring disorder. There are even specific resources for teachers, and videos for those who don’t like to or who have difficulty with reading.

How to apply for jobs if you have Dyslexia

How to apply for jobs if you have Dyslexia

written by Susan Shor, posted on Resume io

Dyslexia should not be a barrier to finding a great job and, in fact, it’s not. Start with the tips below to smooth your path to success.

Dyslexia does not have to be an obstacle in your job search, even if it made your school days more challenging. You have probably developed coping mechanisms and found technology to use to your advantage, but that doesn’t necessarily take the worry out of entering new situations.

This blog is designed to give you guidance on

  • Describing dyslexia to people who may not understand it
  • Writing a flawless resume and cover letter with dyslexia
  • To tell or not to tell (or when to tell) a prospective employer
  • Finding resources for adults with dyslexia.

Book List: Characters Who Have Learning and Attention Issues

Book List: Characters Who Have Learning and Attention Issues

posted on Common Sense Media

Dyslexia can make reading really challenging, but it can’t stop a kid from being a hero. Just ask Percy Jackson! And having ADHD can make school tough, but Joey Pigza manages to navigate his academic and family troubles with humor and courage. These books about kids and teens with learning disabilities can mirror the reader’s experience or help readers understand what friends, classmates, and relatives may be going through. For other compassionate stories, check out our lists of Books That Teach Empathy, Books with Characters Who Have Physical Disabilities, and Coming-of-Age Books.

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