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Be On Time! Teaching Sequence and Schedules

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Be On Time! Teaching Sequence and Schedules

written by Donna Goldberg, Sandra Reif M.A., posted on Attitude Magazine

How Do I Get My Child with ADHD Be On Time?

Getting organized and learning to be on time are not innate skills. Any child — with or without ADHD — must create and maintain organizational systems that make sense to him. For children with ADHD, whose ability to organize, prioritize, and manage time is affected by neurological deficiencies, setting up and maintaining organization routines can be quite difficult.

That’s where you come in. Understanding and managing time is a huge part of being organized, so think of yourself as your child’s time management consultant. Work with her to not only master time concepts, but learn to take control of time. Make sure your child is involved when setting up routines so that she will be invested in finding what works best for her. Help your child practice her skills on a regular basis, and follow through with the systems you create together.

Continue for tips on how to help your child with ADHD master time concepts and start on the path to better organization and time management.

Teaching Sequence to Kids with ADHD

Children first learn about time by being exposed to sequence and routine: First you have a bath, then you have a story, then you go to sleep. Eventually, sequences include the concept of before and after: Before dinner you will take a bath. In kindergarten and first grade, teachers often put up a daily schedule and use words and pictures to review the sequence of the day. Reinforce these concepts at home by making sequence clear to your child by giving specific verbal cues — first, next, then, before, after — as you develop your own routines.

Ask questions as you go about your routine: What comes next? Do you remember what you did first? Reinforce sequence comprehension by giving a series of directions using verbal cues, and make it fun (“First do ten jumping jacks, then write your name backwards”) and have your child give you directions as well. Tell him that you are doing this to help him learn how to listen carefully and pick up on important words that tell us what order to do things in. Ask him to point out words that are related to time. A child who masters the concept of sequence will be better able to organize and prioritize tasks down the road.

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Is My Child Dyslexic?

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Is My Child Dyslexic?

written by Dr. Liz Nissim-Matheis, posted on Psychology Today

It’s March, and you’ve noticed a few things about your child’s reading and writing skills. At your last parent-teacher conference, your child’s teacher recognizes that your child is struggling with reading and writing. What can be further confusing is that your child may have made progress but is still not reading or writing at grade level. Slowly, over the school year, you’ve noticed that your child avoids reading or huffs and puffs when it’s time to sit down and write a response, a short answer, or an essay.

So now what?

We can’t ignore the elephant in the room. The COVID-19 pandemic created a gap in instruction for 1.5 years. Our children did not receive the face-to-face instruction that they needed. Many of the academic struggles that our children were experiencing went unnoticed because how can a teacher recognize reading and writing struggles when assignments are being handed in electronically. There isn’t an observation of the entire child who may have been melting down behind the screen. A great deal of teacher observations and academic instruction were lost during that time.

As our children progressed to the next grade and then the next, parents and teachers began to notice skills that were not at grade level in reading or writing. Our children began to show more behavioral signs, and the natural explanation was that our child was “behavioral” without truly understanding or investigating the underlying roots of those behaviors.

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How to Help Students with Disabilities Transition to Adult Life

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How to Help Students with Disabilities Transition to Adult Life

posted on Lesley.edu

Planning for Life After High School

Perhaps one of the most challenging times in a young adult’s life is when he or she is ready to leave the routines of high school and transition to adult life. This can be even more daunting for students who receive special education services. They are leaving secure supports that are mandated by law and moving into a system where services are less certain.

The Individuals with Disabilities Act of 1990 ensures that all children with disabilities receive a free and appropriate public education that prepares them for transition to further education, employment, and adult living. Some key components of services under the act include:

  • Transition planning beginning at the age of either 14 or 16, depending on the state
  • A coordinated set of activities
  • A results-oriented process
  • Instruction, community experiences, planning for employment and other outcomes, daily living skills, and vocational evaluation.

Once transition planning begins, the roles of special education teachers, students, and families shift. School transition services are provided by secondary special educators, transition specialists, guidance counselors, and others as identified by the Individualized Education Program (IEP) team. Families and students are also a critical part of the process. What can each participant do to ensure a good outcome?

What Schools and Teachers Can Do

  • Engage in person-centered planning, where a group of people focus on a student and help him or her plan for the future
  • Give students in inclusive high school environments access to the general education curriculum
  • Identify someone who specializes in transition services, such as a transition specialist
  • Support students in developing self-determination, leadership, and self-advocacy skills
  • Teach communication and social skills across a variety of settings
  • Encourage student involvement in current and future IEP, assessment, or transition meetings
  • Learn the available adult services, and educate students and families about those services
  • Teach students about the options for employment, continued education, and community and recreational activities
  • Develop a program of further study and activities
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Which Accommodations Are Available for My Child With ADHD?

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Which Accommodations Are Available for My Child With ADHD?

written by Dr. Liz Matheis, posted on Psychology Today

Our children, teens, and young adults with ADHD often struggle to get through daily routines at home and in school even though these routines have been in place since the beginning of the school year. As parents, setting up the expectation, in our heads, that our kids are going to be able to get things done at school without accommodation can mean we are setting them (and us) up for failure and frustration.

Some may argue that we are not preparing our children for “the real world” when we accommodate our kids. However, I respectfully disagree. Our children with ADHD often need a little more time and space to gain the skills they will need for the next phase of their development. For example, we can teach our children in elementary school the skills they need as they prepare for middle school and so on. These skills we call executive functioning skills are prioritizing tasks and assignments, managing time, organizing materials and belongings, and the ability to self-regulate. All of these skills ultimately help our children, teens, and young adults with ADHD to get school and life tasks done and develop a sense of self-efficacy or a solid sense of self.

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ADHD and School

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ADHD and School

written by Jeanne Segal, Ph.D. and Melinda Smith, M.A., posted on Help Guide

School can be a challenge for students with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder—but here’s how you can help your child or teen succeed in the classroom.

Setting up your child for school success

The classroom environment can pose challenges for a child with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD or ADD). The very tasks these students find the most difficult—sitting still, listening quietly, concentrating—are the ones they are required to do all day long. Perhaps most frustrating of all is that most of these children want to be able to learn and behave like their unaffected peers. Neurological deficits, not unwillingness, keep kids with attention deficit disorder from learning in traditional ways.

As a parent, you can help your child cope with these deficits and overcome the challenges school creates. You can work with your child to implement practical strategies for learning both inside and out of the classroom and communicate with teachers about how your child learns best. With consistent support, the following strategies can help your child enjoy learning, meet educational challenges—and experience success at school and beyond.

Tips for working with teachers

Remember that your child’s teacher has a full plate: in addition to managing a group of children with distinct personalities and learning styles, they can also expect to have at least one student with ADHD. Teachers may try their best to help your child with attention deficit disorder learn effectively, but parental involvement can dramatically improve your child’s education. You have the power to optimize your child’s chances for success by supporting the steps taken in the classroom. If you can work with and support your child’s teacher, you can directly affect the experience of your child with ADHD at school.

There are a number of ways you can work with teachers to keep your child on track at school. Together you can help your child learn to find their feet in the classroom and work effectively through the challenges of the school day. As a parent, you are your child’s advocate. For your child to succeed in the classroom, it is vital that you communicate their needs to the adults at school. It is equally important for you to listen to what the teachers and other school officials have to say.

You can ensure that communication with your child’s school is constructive and productive. Try to keep in mind that your mutual purpose is finding out how to best help your child succeed in school. Whether you talk over the phone, email, or meet in person, make an effort to be calm, specific, and above all positive—a good attitude can go a long way when communicating with the school.

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To Test or Not to Test Privately?

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To Test or Not To Test Privately?

written by Dr. Liz Matheis, published on Psychology Today

You know your child is struggling academically, whether he’s not reading at the same level as the other kids in his grade or she’s struggling to write her thoughts on paper.

You’ve spoken to your child’s teacher, who is on board with you and confirms what you see and know. With that said, what’s the next step?

The natural next step is to reach out to the child study team (CST) of your school. From my experience during the last three years, there is often redirection back to the general education arena for an intervention and referral services plan (IRSP), which includes the accommodations to be implemented for 4-6 weeks.

Teachers are asked to offer more differentiated instruction and try more strategies before the child can be referred for a child study team evaluation.

Where does this leave our struggling child? Waiting. Waiting for intervention while more time in the school year passes by. During that time, the gap widens, and remediation opportunities are lost.

I speak from both personal and professional experience. This means that both you and your child are frustrated and flailing.

What’s another option? The private psycho-educational evaluation.

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Spotlight Resources: Calais Adult Transition Program

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Spotlight Resources: Calais Adult Transition Program

Excerpts from: The Calais School Website – CAT Program 

The new Calais Adult Transition Program gives high school graduates ages 18-30 who have: an IEP, 504, documented disability, or “hidden disabilities” which are defined as mood disorders, anxiety, depression and autistic spectrum the support they need to succeed. The program offers a highly personalized and holistic approach in a range of areas including academic and career support as well as therapeutic counseling in a planned environment.

The Calais Adult Transition Program is structured so that adults interested in attending college, vocational training and/or work have professional support to help them navigate challenges that often arise due to their disabilities. The program gives eligible participants a place to access additional assessments, life planning skills, advocacy services, job and school coaching, mental health counseling, case management, socialization support and tutoring.

The program structured so that those interested in attending college-level classes, work, or a combination of both, can do so with the professional support needed to navigate the challenges that often arise due to their disabilities. A hub of additional resources and supports are also offered which include:

  • access to additional assessments
  • life planning skills
  • advocacy services
  • job & school coaching
  • mental health counseling
  • case management
  • socialization support
  • tutoring
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The Best Way to Explain Learning Disabilities to Your Child

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The Best Way to Explain Learning Disabilities to Your Child

written by Rick Lavoie, M.A., M.Ed., posted on ADDitude Magazine

A parent once called my special education school to request an admissions visit for her and her son, who was struggling mightily in school. She asked a strange question in her initial phone call: “Does the school have any signs or posters displayed that identify the program as a school for kids with learning disabilities?”

I asked her why she wished to know this. She replied, “My son doesn’t know that he has a learning disability, and we don’t want him to know.” He knows, Mom. Believe me, he knows.

I have long been puzzled by a parent’s reluctance to discuss a child’s learning disability diagnosis with him. The knowledge that he has an identifiable, common, measurable, and treatable condition often comes as great comfort to the youngster. Without this information, the child is likely to believe the taunts of his classmates and feel that he indeed is a dummy. The truth will set him free!

If a child does not have a basic understanding of the nature of his learning challenges, it is unlikely that he will be able to sustain his motivation in the classroom. Because he is puzzled about the difficulty that he is experiencing at school, he is unlikely to be able to commit to his studies.

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“Please Let Him Make Just One Friend.”

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“Please Let Him Make Just One Friend.”

written by Mary White, posted on Attitude Magazine

This back-to-school season, I implore you: Please talk to your kids about disabilities. Yes, we need to have conversations about physical disabilities — wheelchairs, braces, missing limbs, hearing aides — but let’s not forget to talk about the hidden disabilities that are so often missed entirely. Just because a child looks normal doesn’t mean there is not a battle going on in their brain, and that is so important for everyone — teachers, friends, relatives — to understand.

Here is what I’d like my child’s teachers and classmates to know about my son: He may say or do things that seem strange. Sometimes these things will make him a target for ridicule, judgments, and being left out. He may be “too extra” for the other kids: the extra energy, extra emotions, extra funny, extra loud, extra caring, extra attentive, etc., means he is bullied by some while other kids steer clear of him to avoid the same.

If your child is like my son, you avoid asking about if he made any new friends. Had he made a friend, the excitement of finally being accepted would be beaming across his face; we would already know our kid had exciting news.

 

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Provider Spotlight: Brave Wings Academy

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Provider Spotlight: Brave Wings Academy

Brave Wings Academy is a strength-based therapeutic preschool program designed specifically for autistic children. Our center-based program is offered Monday – Friday 9:00 – 3:00 in Fairfield, NJ. We provide 1:1 instruction with a technician and weekly parent training. Our curriculum prepares kids for future learning and each student receives daily services which can include speech, feeding and occupational therapy, self-help/independence training, sensory play, music, art, yoga and so much more! Our program focuses on establishing sensory and communicative supports while teaching self-advocacy skills. And our program is covered by most insurance plans.

Brave Wings Academy: 155 Passaic Avenue – Suite 150 Fairfield, NJ 07004 (973)800-8515 / info@bravewingstherapy.com

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