What Is Non-Verbal Learning Disorder?

What Is Non-Verbal Learning Disorder?

written by Caroline Miller, posted on childmind.org

When we think of learning disorders, we tend to think of kids who have a hard time learning to read. But there’s another kind of learning disorder, non-verbal learning disorder, or NLD for short. NLD affects other, “non-verbal” kinds of learning like the ability to notice patterns and learn concepts. These include visual patterns, social patterns, and concepts in language and math.

In school, kids with NLD usually have no problem memorizing facts, but they have trouble with ideas and organizing information. Kids with NLD can also be physically clumsy and awkward because they have a hard time understanding what they see and how things take up space.

Like autistic kids, kids with NLD often have trouble picking up social cues. In fact, many kids with NLD also have an autism diagnosis. Non-verbal social cues are a kind of pattern that’s hard for these kids to read.

Sometimes kids with NLD are great at the early stages of math because they’re good at memorizing. But more advanced problems get tricky because they involve noticing and applying a pattern. NLD also affects the set of skills we use to plan and organize our thinking. So kids have trouble breaking down a project into steps, knowing what skills to use for a given problem or figuring out how to organize an essay.

Lots of kids with NLD have all these issues. But some just have a few. For example, they might just struggle with planning and social cues.

Adults tend to realize something’s going on with these kids around 5thgrade. That’s when school becomes less about memorizing and more about applying concepts. For example, kids need to be able to grasp the important idea from a passage or take notes on the main ideas of what a teacher says. NLD makes those skills much harder to learn, but with the right support and strategies kids with NLD can catch up with their peers.

How Parents Can Help Teens Put Down Their Phones

How Parents Can Help Teens Put Down Their Phones

written by Dr. Liz Matheis, posted on Psychology Today

Many of today’s teens spend a lot of time on, with, or near their phones. How many times have you attempted to have a conversation with your child, only to realize that they are only half-listening?

As parents, it can be frustrating, even alarming, to watch our kids being constantly distracted by the notifications that are dinging and popping up on their screens, seemingly making it impossible to focus on any one thing. What’s happening here?

A Failure to Focus

As an executive functioning coach, I find that many of my teen and young adult clients find it difficult to start and finish tasks—often because they are distracted by the notifications that pop up on their phone, or struggle to resist the urge to reach for it when an assignment becomes challenging to complete. In more serious cases, kids struggle not just to start and finish homework but also to take a shower, empty the dishwasher, or do many other tasks that require sustained attention to get through.

These children often have to regroup and try to remember where they left off with an assignment or a task once they are interrupted. As a result, many students and children appear more inattentive, or even unable to focus for longer than a few minutes. Many kids are using their time inefficiently, resulting in a decline in their ability to follow a day’s routine or complete school-related tasks. Oftentimes, this results in later bedtimes and a great deal of fatigue in the morning and throughout the day.

New School Year, New Executive Functioning Strategies

New School Year, New Executive Functioning Strategies

written by Dr. Liz Matheis, published on Psychology Today

The new school year has begun and is beginning to find its swing. Our kids are taking tests and quizzes, they’re assigned papers and projects. It’s happening! Summer is in the distance, and the fall crisp weather is officially here.

As parents, we often think about how to help our children who struggle with poor executive functioning skills such as time management, prioritization, starting a task, completing a task, and keeping school materials organized so they can find their assignments and completed work. Our kids have multiple classes, activities, and daily life tasks that can take a child with attention-deficit disorder/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or weaker executive functioning skills and make life feel like a hot mess, for both parent and child.

As an executive functioning coach, I offer many strategies to help our children and teens get their work done so that they can have their downtime to decompress at the end of each day. It’s unrealistic to believe that our children can go-go-go without a break—the same goes for adults. I often pose it as the following, which seems to resonate: “The goal is to get your work done so you can play and rest. You need to have that time so you are ready for the next day.”

With that said, I encourage parents to enroll their child in no more than one activity per child per season to find a balance among extracurricular activities, academics, and social and family life.

How to Sharpen Executive Functions: Activities to Hone Brain Skills

How to Sharpen Executive Functions: Activities to Hone Brain Skills

written by Adele Diamond, Ph.D., posted on Attitude Mag

Executive functions (EFs) refer to a family of mental processes that allow us to reason and think before acting, meet new challenges head-on and with flexibility, and stay focused and concentrate, and more. So essential are executive functions to our well-being that they have been described as the mental toolkit for success.1 Often, EFs can be more predictive of academic and career success than either socioeconomic status or IQ.2

To improve any executive function, practice is critical. EFs need to be continually challenged — not just used — to see improvements. (That goes for both children and adults.)  However, EF training and practice alone will not achieve the best results. EFs blossom most when we lessen things that impair them (like stress or sadness) and enhance the things that support them (like joy or feelings of belonging).

 

 

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